These Are The Question You Should Ask The Boy When Your Parents Force Arrange A Meeting
Gone are the days when we were born just to get married or so we were made to believe. Our stages of life comprised of being born as a burden, lightening that burden, and become a burden on our in-laws again. At least we are aware and conscious of our own choices and fancies. So, arranged marriages are slowly going out of the trend for the educated and independent class of women. It is tough to choose between restaurants or clothes or the right shade of red lipstick. Is it possible to pick a guy based on a 2 min hurricane interview?
The fact remains relevant that it is just not easy to assert the autonomy on these life decisions in front of our parents. We still have a long way to cover to our freedom. Till then, let us try to make things a little clear and comprehensive. We are not kitchen focused species any more. We have political orientations, we have philosophies to follow, we are geeks, and professionals too. So, when the next time your parents push you to meet a boy for few minutes and take a life decision to marry him, ask him these fun questions.
A question with no right answer makes the person brainstorm and speak like never before, and that kind of openness in sharing thoughts is what will give you sneak-peak into his mind.
1. If given a choice, what super powers you want and why?
This is a great chance to test his imagination, and find out about his fantasies.
2. What is the kindest thing someone has ever done to you?
The parameters of kindness will be judged right after his answers.
3. Would you rather be smart and ugly or dumb and beautiful?
The preferences need to be clear.
4. How do you handle people you don’t like?
Let us see how he averts the danger.
5. You’re a new addition to the crayon box. What colour would you be and why?
Time to take a ride in his land of creativity.
6. What was the last gift you gave someone?
It could be something big or small, but you will find out if he is thoughtful.
7. What are you known for?
That’s purely for fun, because his honesty will be questionable for a long time.
8. Are you a hunter or a gatherer?
The answer will reveal what roles he wants to give you in his life.
9. Who is better: Honey Singh or Badshah?
The trick is to notice if he cringes and talks about his favourite music. It is important for a compatible couple to share same taste in music.